[ he understands - it must be frustrating. to have predicted this, marched right into it, and to come out as singed as expected
but it's not as isolated a consequence as it could be. ]
Unfortunately, yes. You're in a position where you've got to correct your reputation at the same time as building a new one. People are going to remember the way you've been more keenly when you display those behaviors again.
But Clarke behaved poorly too. I've had the conversation with her, I'm sure others will have had. [ actually, "conversation" is saying too much. it was a blunt shut down and likely something else he'll have to apologise for his conduct in later. on which note - ] I've also gone down a few rungs in the estimations of a few people.
We're all stinging. It's worse for you, but it wasn't only you who made the bad calls here and everyone who's watching is well enough aware.
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Date: 2019-05-05 05:43 pm (UTC)but it's not as isolated a consequence as it could be. ]
Unfortunately, yes. You're in a position where you've got to correct your reputation at the same time as building a new one. People are going to remember the way you've been more keenly when you display those behaviors again.
But Clarke behaved poorly too. I've had the conversation with her, I'm sure others will have had. [ actually, "conversation" is saying too much. it was a blunt shut down and likely something else he'll have to apologise for his conduct in later. on which note - ] I've also gone down a few rungs in the estimations of a few people.
We're all stinging. It's worse for you, but it wasn't only you who made the bad calls here and everyone who's watching is well enough aware.